Do you give nice or kind feedback? Distinguishing between nice feedback that prioritizes your own need to avoid conflict and kind feedback that helps your team member develop. Read more
Train your brain to choose curiosityOnce you train your brain to lean into curiosity before it jumps to giving advice, then everything else comes more easily. When you're genuinely curious about what ideas your team member already had to solve a challenge, instead of just focused on a technique to reach an outcome, then it's a lot easier to ask open ended questions. Read more